What it means being a father

I'd say it's special. I've seen how when kids are born, fathers light up. There's a special feeling that comes with being a dad. And from then on one gets the title father after committing to the responsibilities that come with having kids. That's why anyone can be a Dad but not everyone can be a father. This simply means that siring can be easy but sticking through in the life of a kid has its challenges. Despite any reasons one might have its sad when fathers don't step up because its the kids that hurt more. So yesterday being Father's day I had time to reflect on what it means being a father and wrote poems on it.

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Happy Fathers day to my Dad

He's been a father for so long

He's been a dad from the time of his Dad

Cause he was the first born, he's siblings he had to carry along

It must have not been easy but he's done he's best


When I see him stare long into space

I see him get lost in all those years

Years he tried to make space

For everyone in his life and for years,

He's been at it that its all his known


I wonder if he had dreams of his own

I wonder if he was able to live those moments

Or he gets to live dreams of he's kids as his own

For all this years people have looked upto him, most moments

It was his word that was good as gold


I wonder how hard it must have been

Being the one to make the decisions for lots of lives

For you counted on and one wrong decision you called mean

Or being blamed for the mistakes of peoples lives

But he never larshed back he just smiled and went on


Happy Fathers Day to my Dad

It's because of him I'd also want to be a Dad

So that I can have a son and name him after dad

Cause if he's anything like my dad

He'll be a great man to the society


The PO£T