What is the most important thing to do when talking to a person with disability?

Practice the Golden Rule. Treat everyone as you would like to be treated.

Always Ask Before Giving Assistance. Just because a person has a disability, they don't necessarily need or want your assistance.

Think Before You Speak.

Avoid Showing Pity or Being Patronizing.

What are some others that can be added?

Having an open mind to whatever the person with disability is saying. Constructive criticism is welcome instead of viewing a person with disability through inspiration lenses.